Understanding How to Hypnotize Someone to Act According to Your Orders.

What is the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the term hypnosis?

For many people, the answer is this: a Hollywood film with an executed scene complete with a hypnotist and his mythical swinging watch.

Across the hypnotist is the poor individual who is about to be sent to some place in their mind that they have yet to visit in over twenty years.

The truth is that in the real world, hypnosis is less dramatic.

In the simplest terms, hypnosis is a form of manipulation that involves reducing a person’s awareness of their external surroundings and heightening their inward attention.

When an individual is under hypnosis, they respond to suggestions more favourable because their critical thinking is impaired.

This is why the movies will show a subject responding unquestioningly to commands from a hypnotist.

There is some science behind hypnosis, and it involves understanding how the human mind works.

The human brain is structured in such a way that there is the conscious mind that controls critical thinking and the subconscious mind where memories are stored.

The critical mind is what tells you that crossing a busy road without looking is dangerous and stupid; while the subconscious mind is likely to tell you that losing weight is difficult because the memories of the last time you (unsuccessfully) tried losing weight are stored therein.

Hypnosis works by altering the subconscious thoughts you have about certain things and replacing them with better and more beneficial thoughts.

In everyday life, you can use hypnosis to get what you want out of people without them suspecting what you are up to.

A good thing about hypnosis as a tool of manipulation is that it is subtle and leaves behind no evidence.
Unlike lying where you might get caught up in your lies, hypnosis leaves no traces behind.
Nobody will walk up to you and accuse you of hypnotizing them into doing something.
In the worst-case scenario, you are only going to be accused of having a way with something.

“That Dan, he has a way with the ladies, they will say”.

What they don’t know is that you have mastered the art of hypnotizing ladies into doing exactly as you say.

The first step to successfully hypnotizing a person is to form a connection with them.

Very rarely will you be able to hypnotize a stranger with whom you share no bond at all.
Forming a connection with a person is relatively easy.
You just need to watch your body language and theirs as well, and their facial expressions and respond appropriately.
The whole point of establishing a connection is to ensure that the other person is open to you and will respond favourable to your subtle mind control, otherwise known as hypnosis.
After making certain of the existence of some rapport between you and your subject, make use of any of the following tips to hypnotize them:

Stay ambiguous

Ambiguity keeps your audience guessing.
If you want to linger in the minds of people you interact with long after the conversation has ended, you must strike a balance between being memorable and staying ambiguous.
Ambiguity keeps the mind wondering: what exactly did he mean when he said this or that?
As long as their mind is wandering, you are in control of the other person.
Ambiguity and vagueness confuse the conscious mind.
There are things that cannot be processed by the conscious mind, and the mystery of ambiguity is one of them.
In the world of dating and relationships, ambiguity can serve a particularly important role in convincing others to go out with or date you.
Many relationship experts will concur that a little mystery serves a long way as far as keeping things exciting.
What most is not explained is why.
The reason why mystery is so exciting is that as long as you have not been fully processed and understood by a person’s conscious mind, you will always linger in their mind.
You can hypnotize your partner or lover into doing whatever you want them to do by always ensuring that you are ambiguous and mysterious about one or two things.

Throw them off the familiar

The human mind loves patterns.
They are easy to interpret, predictable, and comforting.
Patterns are a big component of the comfort zone and do not require a whole lot of critical thinking.
What are the patterns you have established in your life, and how do they help you?
For many people, patterns simplify life.
Let’s consider a simple pattern that can be interrupted with the intention of hypnotizing a person.
Let’s say you and your spouse have a way of saying goodbye every morning before work that involves a quick hug and a kiss on the cheek.
One morning, you are feeling particularly philanthropic and decide to replace your pattern with a tight lingering hug and a full kiss on the lips.
Your spouse’s mind will be thrown into disarray because that is not what the mind is used to.
In the five seconds of confusion that will ensue in your spouse’s mind, you will have a narrow window for a hypnotic command.
Can you make a “Sobolo drink” today?
Sure, your spouse responds instantly.
On any other day, they would have sat back and considered the work involved in making Sobolo and probably suggested an alternative.
On the day that you throw them off your pattern, they will say yes without thinking too much because you have essentially short-circuited their conscious mind.

Effective keywords

Have you noticed how sales copy or advertisements often have this descriptive wording that gets you imagining all the possibilities presented by a particular product or service?
Certain words hold a particular charm when it comes to hypnotizing people.
For instance, when you tell a person to imagine something, you are already sending them into a hypnotic trance where they are attuned to their subconscious mind.
When they are in this state, they are more suggestible and will likely do what you ask of them.
If you do not believe this, go and look up any travel destination advert and have a listen.
At the end of it, you will likely be thinking of booking your next vacation to that destination.
As long as the subconscious mind is imagining something, then it is getting programmed by that particular thing.
This explains why some people are fearful of darkness, they have imagined the dark to contain bad things, and as long as that imagination is active, the fear remains real and present.
It also explains why many people are afraid of horror movies.
Think about it there is nothing scary about horror movies.
They are just a bunch of normal people acting out fake scenes, so why do you feel so afraid?
Because your mind has imagined everything to be real, that’s why.

Negative words have more impact

It is often believed that the subconscious mind cannot hear negatives.
Instead, any negatives communicated to the subconscious mind are interpreted as positives.
For example, if you were to tell someone, do not go peeking into my room when I am away, that person is likely to interpret this subconsciously as do go peeking into my room when I am away.
This is probably the reason why there are so many exasperated parents of kids who seem to do the exact opposite of what they are told not to do.
As such, if you are looking to get someone to do something without being too direct about it, you can hypnotize their subconscious mind by using negative wording.
Instead of telling your friend:
Please come over and help me pack up for my upcoming relocation.
Consider this:
You do not need to come over to help me pack.
Throughout the course of the day, your friend’s subconscious brain will tell her that she needs to help you pack for your move because that is how the mind interprets your statement.
Of course, whether your friend actually comes over or not is a question of how much premium she places on your friendship.