The Pills of Reality Series (Ep02); It’s Not About the Other Person
The most enlightened beings throughout history told us to love others.
You were not told to love others just so that you would be a nice person.
And you were being given the secret to life!
You were being given the law of attraction
When you love others, you will have an amazing life.
When you love others, you will receive the life you deserve.
Give love to others through kindness, encouragement, support, gratitude, or any good feeling,
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Galatians 5 : 14
For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
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Leviticus 19 : 18
Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against any of your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD.
And it comes back to you and multiplies itself, bringing love to every other area of your life, including your health, money, happiness, and career.
Give negativity to others, through criticism, anger, impatience, or any bad feeling, and you will receive that negativity back guaranteed
And as the negativity comes back, it multiplies itself, attracting more negativity, which affects the rest of your life.
- You can tell in your relationships right now what you’ve been giving.
If a current relationship is great, it means you are giving more love and gratitude than negativity
If a current relationship is challenging, it means you are inadvertently giving more negativity than love.
Some people think a relationship is either good or bad because of the other person, but life doesn’t happen that way.
You can’t say to the force of love, “I will give love only when the other person gives it to me.
You can’t receive anything in life unless you give it first
Whatever you give, you receive, so it’s not about the other person at all: it’s all about you
It’s all about what you are giving and what you are feeling.
You can change any relationship right now by looking for the things you love, appreciate, and are grateful for in that person.
When you make a deliberate effort to look for the things you love more than you notice negative things, a miracle will take place.
It will appear to you as though something incredible has happened to the other person.
But it’s the force of love that is incredible, because it dissolves negativity, including negativity in relationships.
All you have to do is harness the force of love by looking for the things you love in the person, and everything will change in the relationship.
Now here is the tricky bit with giving love in relationships, and it’s the one thing that has prevented many from receiving the life they deserve.
- It’s only tricky because people have misunderstood what it means to give love to others.
To be very clear about what it means to give love to others, you need to understand what it means not to give love to others.
Trying to change another person is not giving love! Thinking you know what is best for another person is not giving love.
Thinking you are right and another person is wrong is not giving love,
Criticizing, blaming, complaining, nagging, or finding fault with another person is not giving love
Giving love to other people does not mean you let people walk all over you or abuse you in any way because that’s not giving love either.
Allowing another person to use you doesn’t help that person, and it surely doesn’t help you.
Love is tough, and we learn and grow through its law, and as part of that learning, we experience consequences.
So, it is not love to allow another person to use or abuse you.
The answer is, to get yourself onto the highest frequency of good feelings that you can, and the force of love will resolve the situation for you.
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